Forget Her? Forget Him?

This post is dedicated to the difficulties of forgetting someone you have loved.  I am not talking about that one night stand that you had a great time and would love to find that person, I am talking about the 1 year + relationship that is hard to forget.  Forgetting about a person that had a significant part of your life is not easy, with that said, it is easier for some than others.  If you are reading this, you are probably one of the people that have a rough time forgetting, welcome to the club.  It is a strange thing to wonder what a person is doing years and years from the last time you have seen him/her, most of you know what I am talking about.  Is there a solution to this problem?  TIME.  The answer for me, and the answer for most of you is going to be time.  Do not expect to get over a former long-term relationship overnight.  Replace those memories with new ones that are better and with time you will begin to forget.  If you are like me, you will only remember the good times and not the bad, that makes it even tougher to forget.  The thing that I have grown to accept is that people that had an effect on your life will always be there, just make the best of it.  Sometimes it is not so bad to remember the good things about your past relationships.